China Travel Etiquette: Dos & Don'ts for Malaysians

Chinese hosts are famously warm and forgiving of visitors, so you will never be judged harshly for a small mistake. Still, a few courtesies make a trip smoother and show respect. Here are the ones that matter.

Greetings and courtesy

• A smile and "ni hao" go a long way; age and seniority are respected.
• Offer and receive things with both hands, or one hand supporting the other.
• Punctuality is valued — arrive on time for tours and meals.

Dining

• Dishes are shared; use serving chopsticks where provided.
• Your host may keep adding food to your bowl — a sign of care.
• Toasting is common at banquets; you can decline politely with tea.
• Do not stick chopsticks upright in rice — it resembles funeral incense.

Temples and religious sites

• Dress modestly and speak softly; these are active places of worship.
• Walk clockwise around stupas and prayer wheels.
• No photography inside halls at many sites, including Kumbum.
• Do not point at statues or monks with a single finger.

Photography

• Ask before photographing people.
• Some official buildings and checkpoints prohibit photos; follow signs.

Everyday tips

• Queueing is looser than in Malaysia — stay calm and patient.
• Tipping is not expected; service is included.
• A little Mandarin goes a long way, and your guide handles the rest.

Read the Before You Go guide for the full pre-trip preparation.